Some people appreciate a list of gift suggestions. Other people find the idea of sharing wish lists to be opportunistic, greedy, and tacky. However, this doesn’t tell the full story. For many, it isn’t the wish list itself that is the problem. The real issue is how the wish list is shared or presented to people. Finding tactful ways to suggest a wishlist can significantly change how it’s received. If you want to start using wish lists with your friends and family, consider these helpful suggestions to tactfully suggest a wish list.
Timing is everything
When you share your wish list with others, it will have a direct impact on how the other person receives it. There is an appropriate moment and an inappropriate time. For example, sharing a wish list before an upcoming birthday or holiday makes more sense than randomly doing it. One time feels relevant to current events, while the other feels like you are just asking for gifts.
Another option is to wait for someone to ask you what you want or express frustration in knowing what to get. Waiting for the other person to bring up the topic avoids the suggestion of opportunitism.
Express gratitude
Before you share a wish list, express gratitude for any previous or future gifts the person gives. Try to explicitly mention a specific gift they gave you. Point out that they have given you wonderful gifts that you love. Your wish list isn’t because you have disliked previous gifts. Your wish list is merely a helpful guide to aid them.
Include reciprocity
Talk about the idea of sharing wish lists. Discuss sharing or trading wish lists instead of just handing out your list. This focuses on everyone getting what they want, not just you. This is where Giftster can be useful. Everyone can make their own online wish list and share it. You can even set up a group for your family so when you log in you see everyone’s lists anytime you need an idea for them.
Emphasize thoughtfulness
When sharing your wishlist, point out the thoughtfulness or practicality of the items on your list. This will help highlight the fact that you are trying to be helpful by providing gift ideas that can bring value to your life.
Share selectively
Consider who you should and should not share your wishlist with. Selectively sharing your wish list can help you avoid individuals who will not be receptive, no matter how it’s presented. Choose to share your wish list with people who will appreciate the guidance and understand the practicality of it.
Respect boundaries
It’s important to be respectful of others’ boundaries. Suggesting a wishlist could be helpful for some. For others, it could induce unnecessary social pressure and anxiety. For example, providing someone with a wishlist of expensive luxury goods would be unkind when you know they are experiencing financial constraints.
Tactfully suggest a wish list
Creating and sharing wishlists can be a helpful tool for ensuring everyone gets what they want. However, how you go about sharing your wishlist will significantly impact how it’s received. To avoid appearing greedy or opportunistic, express gratitude, highlight thoughtfulness, and respect others’ boundaries. Think about the other person before you share your wishlist. This will help you selectively share your list with those most likely to appreciate it and give you theirs.
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